Sunday, 19 September 2010

Great Progress



Hi All,

I thought it was about time I gave you another update, we have been home from America for 4 weeks and Libby is making brilliant progress. It is coming up 8 weeks since the Selective Dorsal Rhizotomy (SDR) operation and 6 weeks since her heel chords & hamstrings were lengthened. Some of you may be wondering why Libby is often in a wheelchair when she wasn’t prior to the operation, well this is because she is very weak. During the SDR surgery Dr Park cut 65% of Libby’s nerves in her spine, this removed all the spasticity (tightness) in her legs and also her left arm (which was an unexpected bonus), 9 days later she had her second operation. After these operations, Libby couldn’t weight bare at all, all the tightness in her legs that had enabled her to stand and walk in a style of her own had gone. What we have now are very ‘floppy’ legs, which is brilliant and so nice when we are doing stretches to feel no resistance and I don’t get in a hot sweat trying to loosen the muscles each morning. These new legs now have to learn to walk again and hopefully by building the correct muscles she will develop a much better and more normal style of walking.

The hard work for Libby is now, she has got to develop muscles that have never been used before; we are having therapy 4-5 times a week. Libby is coping really well and working very hard, it can’t be easy for her to be back at school full time and then coming home 4 out of 5 days a week to do physio for an hour. Jill (the Bromley Borough physiotherapist) was very interested to see how Libby had lost her core strength too and was very floppy in her upper body; this highlighted how much the spasticity had been holding her trunk up. However, one week later and Jill could see that Libby was getting stronger and working hard on her upper body control. Libby also sees Judit (Hungarian therapist) and she is also amazed at how Libby is progressing so quickly, they do most of the physio in Libby’s bedroom and it’s so lovely when all I can hear each week is lots of WOW’s!

For me, I would have thought it would be very difficult to see improvement in Libby when I am with her every day but it’s so wonderful that I can. I love watching her walking in her frame and seeing her step heel toe with each step instead of the old dragging the feet across the floor and making holes in her shoes within a couple of days! After her two operations her feet had basically collapsed and as she stood up, they completely rolled inwards, now I see her feet getting stronger and stronger and are in a much better position. She has long splints which she can come out of once she has full knee extension as she walks – she’s very nearly there and I think within a week or two we will be shoe shopping again and she’ll be able to progress to her short splints. She should remain in short splints for another 6-8 weeks, whilst we build her ankle strength and then she’ll be able to wear ‘NORMAL’ shoes (my dream, I do hope she likes shoe shopping!) with just a special inner sole.

As usual, Libby’s determination is getting her through, last week she made it her goal to walk up the hill into school, it took 3 tries and she did it – I was expecting her to reach that goal until half term at the end of October. We are lucky that she wants to be able to walk so much, she is putting everything she can into this, she is back horse riding, and swimming and she’ll be back skiing next weekend. She has managed about 10 steps by herself and is practising daily! Our goal is to leave the wheelchair at school or home by half term and be back full time on her frame, walking with one hand and taking as many steps by herself as she can.

As usual, all that leaves me to say is THANK YOU!

Toni
xx


P.S. If you followed the blog, you’ll understand when I say that since we have been back Dave hasn’t been to an Irish Bar – no need I suppose when we run a pub! However, he did fall asleep in the most inappropriate circumstance...........................

7 weeks post op

7 weeks post op

Tuesday, 31 August 2010

The Hard Work Begins


Well we've been home now for 10 days and time for a quick update -

We arrived home safe and sound, the flight was long and boring and little sleep had by all but we were greeted with a welcoming at the Greyhound with our family and friends which was lovely and kept us going for the rest of the day until it was time to fall into bed.

No rest for Libby, Judit (her Hungarian Conductor/therapist) arrived on Monday to start the long road ahead of building the muscles that Libby has never used before. Judit's reaction to Libby's new legs was Wow, Wow, WOW and every now and again another WOW!! It was good to see Judit and I felt back in my comfort zone - knowing that Libby was getting the best start to this new beginning. Luckily for me Judit came 4 times last week - Libby was not so pleased! Although she fully understands why she needs to do all this therapy, it's still a bit tough on her and she's very tired - however, as always, she is trying her hardest and by the end of last week Judit had already seen an improvement. I have also seen a great improvement and we are now back to walking with one hand (not as well as pre-op) and I can see she is getting stronger and stronger each day.

Libby's scars are healing nicely, she is getting on well with her new splints and being an absolute star wearing her night splints to bed. I did get confirmation today that Libby is not supposed to be walking bare foot for 6-8 weeks post heel chord/hamstring surgery - I've now stopped saying to her 'Well, you'll just have to get used to it' when she's complain that her heels are hurting whilst walking bare foot to the bathroom -Whoops - I didn't know!

Last week we had a visit from Elle, Sheerena & Thomas (Elle is 13 and had the SDR surgery in May); it was lovely for Libby to talk to Elle and see how well she was doing and also for me to talk to Sheerena and compare experiences. There is also a great network of SDR families on Facebook and its great when you have any doubts or questions, there's always someone that can help.

Today we have seen 'Jolly' Jill, Libby's borough physiotherapist and again, it was great to hear Jill saying 'Wow' and advising which exercises will benefit which muscles and what Jill plans to do. The video clip is supposed to show Libby's progress since 10 days ago but Libby thought it was all about her posing!

All in all, it's great to be home and great to have all the support we could need right now. We know that SDR surgery was most definitely the right decision for Libby and she will fulfil her dream.

There is a very big thank you to David & Fiona for thinking of Libby and bringing this operation to our attention - without them we wouldn't have known that there was a chance out there for Libby.

Obviously, a massive thank you to all of you for your help and support over these last eight months and for making this happen.

xxxx

Saturday, 21 August 2010

Goodbye St Louis



Today was our last day at St Louis Children’s Hospital and we had our final therapy session with ‘Mad’ Michael, there were a few measurements to take to see how Libby’s range had improved, I could see she has a much better range than before and her legs and feet are so floppy now, so floppy that we need to build up strength. The good news is that all the stiffness has gone and we can now concentrate on developing her new way of walking – the measurements baffle me and I never fully understand what they mean!

The session continued with a wobbly go on her sticks (although we had managed a bit of one-handed walking this morning at the apartment which was good as we were able to do a lot of that before SDR), then another lap of the therapy room on her frame, 1.41 secs this time, followed by her quickest walk yet on the treadmill. Then a bit of fun with the zoom ball – ‘Mad’ Michael wet it first so they got soaked as they played and then finally a go on the bike, Ben was allowed too so we had a stressful time wandering around the hospital trying to control him and Libby nagging to leave her alone!

It was time to say goodbye and I felt quite emotional, Libby & Michael hugged and she said she was going to miss him, Ben jumped all over him in only a way Ben can and I just about controlled my tears until I walked away! It’s hard to leave the little safety net that we have been in, where every question is answered, every problem is dealt with and everyone is so nice & friendly. However, it will be great to get back to our family and friends and I know that our little SDR network will be there on Facebook and also I know that if I have any questions or concern an email or a phone call to St. Louis will be received and dealt with as promptly and professionally as always. A fantastic experience and journey we have had here in St. Louis.

We finished the day beside the pool which reopened today, so Libby and Ben were happy and Libby was delighted that she climbed two steps and stood up. But we run out of time and missed the BBQ with the other SDR families which was a great shame.

We are heading of home tomorrow so the blog will slow down quite considerably. I will blog from time to time when Libby reaches another milestone. Thank you to everyone who has been following and keeping us company whilst we have been here – it has consumed my evenings!

All that is left to say is, THANK YOU to everyone for making this happen for Libby, it has and will change her life and we are forever grateful.

Lots of love
Toni (And of course Dave – who would have done the blog himself (yeah right), if he could work a computer!!).

Wobbly Sticks

Friday, 20 August 2010

Another Good Day




Another good day today, Libby slept well in her night splints and we don’t appear to have any rubbing or sores on her day or night splints, so very pleased with that. Libby managed to get off the loo and stand up without any support this morning (so she likes to tell everyone) and she couldn’t wait to show Michael in therapy – but we left out the loo!!

We had a good therapy session, Libby needs to adjust to the extra weight her legs are carrying and also the huge shoes so there was a little bit of dragging feet here and there and also she was really swinging her left leg out when walking. This got better and better during the session and I’m sure once she is used to the shoes and splints, she’ll be fine – at least I’ll have something to nag about, I can now say ‘don’t swing’ instead of ‘flat feet’ !! Libby also did another circuit of the therapy room, this time in 2 mins instead of 4 mins 48 secs as she did yesterday – sheer determination!

Ben happily went to sibling club because Yasmin’s (having her operation today) brother was going to be there. When we picked him up he had made Libby a lovely chain made out of flowers and said ‘I wasted all my time doing that’!!!

We finished off the day visiting the Delmar Boulevard (The Loop), not much to see really and we stopped off for a Ben & Jerry’s Ice Cream – not the best idea to give the children chocolate ice cream in 97° heat, it was melting before they could get it in their mouths and what a mess, Libby had already spilt coke on her white trousers before therapy, along with the Ice cream, the trousers went straight in the bin when we got back!!

One more day to go, we have our last therapy and discharge from the hospital at 11am and then we are hoping the pool will finally be open for a last swim tomorrow and then finish in the evening at the Residence Inn with the other SDR families for a BBQ.

Super Trying

Thursday, 19 August 2010

The Arrival of Splints!



Today was another step forward!! Libby did her stretches with me this morning and didn’t complain of any pain. We set off for therapy and the splints had arrived, yipeeeee!! Although I was really pleased it also meant not a lot of therapy would get done today but that’s life. Whilst Michael was making the necessary adjustments to the splints, Libby did her best walking in her frame yet (see the previous video posting), she had lovely straight knees, her heels were coming down before her toes and she managed a whole circuit of the therapy room without a break which was a first and it took her 4 mins & 48 secs – she was determined to do it (her long socks were in preparation for her splints!). I was very proud of her and had a lump in my throat as I could see she was tired but wouldn’t give up and also her knees and feet were brilliant. – I can’t wait to see how she gets on with her splints.

We left therapy and headed off to the shoe shop, I was very excited thinking of all the choices she would have, however, when we got there, there was only one option - Oh well, she will get a choice eventually! The purchase was very quick and painless, Libby came out in these huge size 3.5 trainers that cost $65 and she was delighted. We then headed to the shoe outlet store where I purchased her an identical pair of trainers (in a different colour) for $9.21!!!!

Libby had a bit of a moment today and she broke down in tears as she was missing Daddy, shortly after I received a text from Daddy saying he was looking forward to us coming home as he needed someone to control him! - I think the rest of the text was lost – the bit where he said he was missing us too!! Ben jumped on the band wagon too and was missing his Daddy but they then got distracted trying to stop Uncle Karl ‘popping’ into another shop!

We set off for the cinema, Uncle Karl treated us and we watched Cats & Dogs in 3D which we all enjoyed. All in all a good day and feeling positive and delighted with how her legs are looking, feeling and working.

Libby couldn't wait to go to be in her night splints - I couldnt think of anything more uncomfortable, but so far she's not complaining!

I’m hoping the last two days of therapy will be really good.